Announce Engagement – Wedding Etiquette

Newly engaged? As the happy couple stylishly announced the news, reveals “The book”. FEM.com has an exclusive excerpt.

In “the wedding book – label for brides and grooms, groomsmen, parents, guests ‘ author Claudia Seutter from Giżycko summarizes wedding etiquette rules by planning a wedding through the wedding day itself up to the acknowledgements (608 pages, 24.90 euro for example atamazon.de). FEM.com has an exclusive excerpt from the book in which the author reveals how a freshly betrothed pair stylishly proclaims the message.

Announce The Big News

Even if you are in the adrenaline rush, because you just got engaged and it’s burning you under the nails, with their very best should you not head over everywhere out trumpet able to share your feelings, the good news. Here too it is important to keep the label and therefore a certain order after you inform your environment?

First Come The Parents

Show your parents the honor and respect to put them first by the upcoming event in knowledge. They stay close, make a brief flying visit. Must you rely on the phone, because the parents, for example, far from you live, let each your intentions of marriage both parents personally on the phone. Let not your mother’s in particular, to deliver the glad tidings your father after the phone call from second hand.

Flowers And a Personal Interview
Personally deliver the glad tidings, not save on a bouquet of flowers for the mother-in-law in spe, you pass wrapped when entering the apartment or the House. As a bouquet of flowers, a container from the favorite flowers or in the favorite color of your mother-in-law suitable for the occasion, unless you know it. White flowers such as chrysanthemum, Callas, lilies many people consider as death or cemetery flowers and should be not given away to mark the occasion, unless you know that you take to the taste of the recipient.
Definitely not, you may bring red roses to your mother-in-law, are reserved as a sign of love for your girlfriend and future wife. Do you want to tickle your friend, this gets even a bouquet of flowers – in this case during this visit like red roses – you, which you can hand over the big message at the beginning of the meeting or announcement.
If you are not sure whether your future mother-in-law is superstitious, you should give a bouquet with thirteen stems. Also if you do better not according to ancient custom the number thirteen, a Strauß must no longer be nowadays bound from an odd number of flowers.

Tips For Patchwork Fiancee

You have children from a previous relationship, or even your own children, these are the first ones you let in your plans before the parents. It would be a big mistake to keep for the time being the engagement before your children, even if you act with the best intentions. Nothing hurt your children more, that you may learn of grandparents, the MOM or the dad is going to marry. Put together with your children and tell them of the impending change in the family compound. Avoid it, to inaugurate first older children and asking them, first of all to maintain strict confidentiality over the younger siblings. Again, conflicts are inevitable. Be prepared for this conversation on all your children’s reactions. Conscientiously answer your children’s questions, and take these their fears and hardships, the future life in the new family formation will look like, before you take the next step and friends and family talking of your wedding plans inform set. It is important that children are prepared and are in the new situation comfortable if you shower in the next few months with congratulations of relatives and friends.

Friends And Family
Related or important relatives should first read: siblings, nieces, nephews, grandparents, godmothers and Godfather as well as friends of the family, have a close bond to you. Give you the feeling that they play an important role in your life and avoid that they learn from the big event second hand.
Close friends will notify you of course immediately and personally, others become party via E-Mail, others only with the official engagement or wedding display the upcoming marriage.  According to mabletonproducts, all communication possibilities are allowed and are at the discretion of the couple. In the workplace, you should remember not too long to disrupt the working day by the proclamation, but dear colleagues and immediate short oral or written to inform, and to propose a joint lunch with you in detail of the Engagement can report.
Some people will complain maybe with you, that you have not personally put them by your marriage intentions in knowledge. Here you come furthest with honesty. Give to understand that you could notify in advance not everyone you would like to personally informed, due to the large number of people, and ask for your understanding. This is the only effective way to defuse such predicament.

 

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